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Time Wasters (43 posts / 5,862 views)
braders1978 braders1978
Posts: 18,195
Post #1 7 Jun 2026 12:50
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How many people are getting sick and tired of absolute time wasters,saying they want to buy something youre selling to the piss you about and let you down.It happens on Facebook,ebay,here if you say you are going to buy something from someone then stick to your word instead of letting people down.Sick and tired of absolute ********s
CarpCodger71 CarpCodger71
Posts: 2,762
Post #2 7 Jun 2026 15:02
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If it’s happening on here then their thumb needs removing .
harveyboy
Posts: 1,540
Post #3 7 Jun 2026 15:11
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Ebay is horrific, what I don't understand is why they waste their own time.
blackfield blackfield
Posts: 2,651
Post #4 7 Jun 2026 15:36
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I share your pain. Just the way of the world at the moment.... I also think people think you're desperate to sell stuff and almost want you to give it away. There are some good guys on here tho. Bought and sold some gear recently and had a positive experience as buyer and seller. I have noticed less interest if you state no haggling.
808
Posts: 198
Post #5 7 Jun 2026 16:03
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Ive had a nightmare lately, fishing gear is bad enough but not a jot on the fools I have had to deal with to sell my Mrs moped.
kells kells
Posts: 6,017
Post #6 7 Jun 2026 16:21
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f it’s happening on here then their thumb needs removing.

Bit extreme.. it's not the Islamic state, you know..

Tyre kickers the world over. Frustrating i know. But something you have to put up with..
Singlebleep Singlebleep
Posts: 2,380
Site deviant...
Site deviant... Post #7 7 Jun 2026 18:05
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Sold a bait boat on eBay twice, both time non payers. EBay don’t give a ****.

Someone on here asked as a longshot if anyone had a Nash Hookbait bag. I said I had and would sell it, dug it out of the attic, sent pics ………….and got no reply
jhhilton1983 jhhilton1983
Posts: 1,945
Post #8 7 Jun 2026 18:11
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It absolutely makes me rage... especially ebay.

I sold something and it said collection only, then cue some stupid low ball offers from someone which i knocked back. He then goes on to bid and win the item and messages me asking to post it... to Cambridge (I'm based in Manchester) i refused due to size etc.... next thing im reported and have to pay the ebay fees... i relisted it and he did the same again. cancelled account and came off ebay for good second time around
CarpCodger71 CarpCodger71
Posts: 2,762
Post #9 7 Jun 2026 18:21
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Cut it off . Off with his thumb 👍
0nslow 0nslow
Posts: 1,616
Post #10 7 Jun 2026 18:55
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Miserable sods the lot of ya
runneil runneil
Posts: 1,949
Post #11 7 Jun 2026 20:43
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Years ago I was selling something, a guy rang me up and said he thought it was overpriced, so I said OK mate ill knock something off,

he said 'oh I don't want to buy it just thought I'd let you know it was overpriced '

As you say how can they be bothered, have they nothing better to do

Crazy bar stewards
dickweed dickweed
Posts: 1,268
Post #12 7 Jun 2026 21:40
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Sold 2 Delkims years ago on eBay. 29 days after receiving them buyer claimed he had not received them and opened a case and demanded a refund.

The buyers written English on the mails was very poor slang at best. Did a bit of research via the web and he had served 5 years for trying to rob his local shop. He got his head kicked in by a few customers and the shop assistant.

I managed to get the proof of delivery pic from the Royal Mail which included someone at the door taking the package as well as the surrounding brickwork around the door and front window.

Got onto Google maps and zoomed in on his front door and all the brickwork matched with the Royal Mail pic. Sent evidence to eBay and cases closed.

Most of my transactions run smoothly but get the very odd bad one.
Tinhead Tinhead
Posts: 17,089
Post #13 8 Jun 2026 00:00
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I know there's plenty of timewasters out there but is it fishing gear that tends to attract more than usual?
Reason I ask is I've sold non fishing stuff on ebay and FB Marketplace and apart from a few idiots things usually go well.
I've not tried Vinted yet, I might give that a go.
jeffire jeffire
Posts: 4,442
Post #14 8 Jun 2026 01:31
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Dont ever go into rod building then . Every knob on the planet wastes your time.
TCarper TCarper
Posts: 4,650
Post #15 8 Jun 2026 11:42
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Quote... Dont ever go into rod building then . Every knob on the planet wastes your time.

We have not answered our work mobile to unknown callers for the past 6 years Jeff, because if we did, NOTHING would ever get done. It often rings all day, every day nigh on (silent). Anglers would buy one tub of hook baits, experience incredible results... Then want to phone up and try to strike up a conversation, trying to find out why & what we are up to. The same patterns over and over again. Lovely at first, after years of the same thing, not so much.

Or, blokes who spend £250 on hook baits, then expect a free personal tuition with it via a phone call late at night. Or, people phoning up, to ask what hook bait to use...

"Hi, I'm down the lake, in the SW corner, swim is seven foot deep, silt with a bit of gravel". "Wind is currently pushing from the east, I purchased S2, Garlics & S4. Which ones should I be using"? Sometimes stuff like that at 10pm on a Sunday night, I kid you not. Telling people to fk off is not great PR

So around 6 years ago, we simply stopped answering the phone. WhatsApp messages are easy to screen. Anything important, people get a call back. Tyre kickers just get ignored.

One of the greatest reliefs for me of us going 'shop only' going forwards, is simply not having to deal with the public. For all the reasons listed in this thread and a whole lot more
frothey frothey
Posts: 3,575
Post #16 8 Jun 2026 12:00
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In retail, if you could do without suppliers and the general public life would be peachy.....
jeffire jeffire
Posts: 4,442
Post #17 8 Jun 2026 14:00
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👍
Spod Spod
Posts: 13,415
Post #18 8 Jun 2026 14:50
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Don't whatever you do look at Vinted. That place is crawling with scumbags.
Tinhead Tinhead
Posts: 17,089
Post #19 9 Jun 2026 08:27
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Is that for fishing gear or in general.
The_Saint The_Saint
Posts: 2,072
Post #20 9 Jun 2026 08:29
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not actually true, I've bought and sold plenty on vinted, rarely have had an issue tbh
Fivenil Fivenil
Posts: 2,037
Post #21 9 Jun 2026 08:36
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Marketplace is the worst. Sold a fair amount on there but way too many no shows.
Spod Spod
Posts: 13,415
Post #22 9 Jun 2026 09:34
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Maybe not for fishing gear but generally it is full of scammers.
vossy1 vossy1
MODERATORMOD
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Post #23 9 Jun 2026 13:43
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Wierd isn't it, the Mrs uses it probably every 2 weeks or more, used it twice last week, not had a problem yet....you watch that's done it
Smudge79 Smudge79
Posts: 2,737
Post #24 9 Jun 2026 21:32
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I think some people are just lonely and just want the interaction.

Suffering it now on ebay. A fella has sent me about 10 messages haggling a "buy it now" option which I've done for him and now he's disappeared.
braders1978 braders1978
Posts: 18,195
Post #25 9 Jun 2026 21:37
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Anything nice
The_Saint The_Saint
Posts: 2,072
Post #26 10 Jun 2026 07:32
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sold a pair of waders on ebay, 5 weeks after they were received, they message me, saying they leak and they think i should refund them.....yeah right
vossy1 vossy1
MODERATORMOD
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Post #27 10 Jun 2026 09:48
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I think ebay will stand by you on that one
TCarper TCarper
Posts: 4,650
Post #28 10 Jun 2026 15:22
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Here's just one of the incredible ones we have had Matt. And dealing direct we would get so many.

Had a young lad contact us via WhatsApp. Showing a tub of hook baits, with one on top that had clearly been in the water over night. Swollen, you could even see the indent where the floss had been around it. Claimed they had been sent like that.

When I called him up, there was an older man behind him instructing him what to say. It was so cringy. I asked the young lad to put the puppet master on the the phone. After a heated discussion for two minutes about how what he was claiming was an impossibility, he apologised quickly & put the phone down. When I tried to call back it was blocked.

Scammers everywhere now.
scozza
Posts: 18,421
Post #29 10 Jun 2026 16:56
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Sorry mate, I just don’t want it
braders1978 braders1978
Posts: 18,195
Post #30 10 Jun 2026 17:06
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You couldnt afford it
scozza
Posts: 18,421
Post #31 10 Jun 2026 18:03
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I don’t do cheap

What were you selling, leather balaclava, purple leotard?
braders1978 braders1978
Posts: 18,195
Post #32 10 Jun 2026 20:17
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you would of bought that
scozza
Posts: 18,421
Post #33 10 Jun 2026 20:22
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Potentially, but not the second hand rubber fist you were selling

braders1978 braders1978
Posts: 18,195
Post #34 10 Jun 2026 20:49
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you seem to know alot about this stuff
JeffE JeffE
Posts: 1,196
Post #35 10 Jun 2026 21:03
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I get my mate to sell my stuff on eBay using his account. 9/10 times it's fine but every now and then you do get a complete cockwomble as everybody does. You list something as new then a question comes in "is it new?".

Sold 3 packets of hooks to somebody once who claimed when he opened the envelope it was empty. FFS.
Dedge Dedge
Posts: 39
Post #36 11 Jun 2026 12:11
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I was selling some bite alarms on Vinted and eBay and had some ridiculous offers and time-wasters.
I had them listed for £400, and someone went out of their way to tell me they'd seen some on Facebook for £375. I replied, "That's great, go and buy them then." He responded with "OK bitch" and blocked me. 😂
Then I had another lad ask if I wanted to swap them for a gaming PC.

I hope its none of you lot haha
Tinhead Tinhead
Posts: 17,089
Post #37 11 Jun 2026 13:42
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I can understand that if you are good seller but to be fair there's not so good sellers out of there that claim their item is new when it's not.
By asking 'is it new', you say yes and it turns out not to be, the buyer has more evidence if he claims 'Not As Described'

The one that gets me is clothing listed as 'New Without Tags'
Then in the description it says 'only worn a handful of times'

Always read the small print and ask if in doubt

@Dedge Personally I would've modified my reply.
On Marketplace I've been offered a Playstation Playmat for a guitar and goose feather jacket for a 3D printer!!!
Spod Spod
Posts: 13,415
Post #38 11 Jun 2026 13:54
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I'm considering a set of Nevs at the moment and have been looking at a few on eBay. There's one set for sale with the description, "no marks or cracks whatsoever" but you can clearly see at least 3 cracks in the base from the pictures.....
0nslow 0nslow
Posts: 1,616
Post #39 12 Jun 2026 04:10
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I hope you took the goose feather jacket
QAE QAE
Posts: 21
Post #40 14 Jun 2026 16:20
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Secondhand rubberfist PMSL
silverfish silverfish
Posts: 2,652
Post #41 21 Jun 2026 00:31
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I know where you are coming from, I had some items for sale on the bay of evils, I knew what they were worth, I knew what other sellers were asking..more than they were worth.
So I started £100 lower.
The first message asked for my best price for buy it now- it's there the start price
The second asked for my best c-a-s-h price for the second lot..if he collected.
Went on for a few days and when they sold item one sold for £100 over the opening price ..to the guy that messaged me at the beginning
And the second item also sold for £130 over the opeing bid to Mr 'best cash price'..and the delivery address Sunderland. So much for collection.

Now I also have some of specialist shooting items for sale privately at genuinely fair for both party prices. It's been like pulling teeth.
One guy asked for my best price on the lot, advertised prices amounted to around £900, some of it new and under half of RRP
Make me an offer...
£300..you're 70 miles away and there is fuel and time.
Three weeks later I knock £10 post off two items and he finally commits to buying them

A few weeks later he messaged me- he has a mate who may be interested in the rest of the gear.
I thought OMG here we go and ignored it until he messaged me again.
Got in touch with his mate, sent pictures, gave him my prices.'
replied ' can we do a deal... what's your best price, I can use some of the gear but the rest I'll just sell on. where abouts are you to see if it's worth collecting?'

Those are my prices, make a reasonable offer I can accept it or not.

I'm not trying to rip you off 'i'm willing to buy things off you that I dont want at a fair price- if it works both ways but hopefully make the deal work easier for you'

Thanks for the offer of a 'favour' but how does that work for me?
I'm not going to undercut myself so that you can pay less and make a profit.
mark1009
Posts: 4,738
Post #42 21 Jun 2026 03:07
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I bought a set of 4 aviators from a guy who advertised them as collection only from a place about 15 miles from me. I got them for £50 under my maximum bid. I felt so guilty as it was just before Christmas I bought him a present of £100 of booze as a Christmas present when I eventually managed to pick them up. ( don't ever try to drive around Maidstone in the rush hour ) he and his wife were lovely people .Basically not all e bay transactions are bad, if both parties are normal , reasonable people, and not money grabbing *******s
silverfish silverfish
Posts: 2,652
Post #43 21 Jun 2026 11:55
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well you're a a better man than me,
it's an auction and if the hammer price is 50 quid less than the most you were willing to pay and higher than the starting bid ....it's fair.
probably did better than what the tyre kickers in the Classified would offer
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