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My special little girl has passed away. (31 posts / 1,748 views)
tazi tazi
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Post #1 23 Jul 2022 10:30
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Thank you for being such a special girl to me/us.

I'll never forget the day that I saw you in the dogs home, sitting there one of the cutest dogs I'd ever seen. As all other dogs were barking and jumping up the cage you just sat there very quiet and I just knew you were the one for me to bring and provide a loving and caring home.

I'll never forget the time that whilst in the dogs home you nibbled your mum to be finger (exactly like our other rescue dog did).

We noticed that you had come into season and thankfully whilst still in the dogs home we had you neutered where a tumour was found on your overies and the vet put in his notes (very lucky dog who will go on to live a long life).

Special, special girl. R.I.P and I await the day when we can have hugs and kisses again.

Sorry, for going off a little but you're a great bunch of lads n lasses.

You'll always be my special little girl

Fly high princess Nikka.

XOXOXOXOXOXOXO.
snapper1 snapper1
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Post #2 23 Jul 2022 10:43
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Special memories fella, well done
tazi tazi
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Post #3 23 Jul 2022 11:40
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Indeed.
sundance sundance
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Post #4 23 Jul 2022 16:35
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Sorry for that mate. Sound like that dog had the best life with
You though..
mal mal
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Post #5 23 Jul 2022 17:10
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Ah mate. I'm sorry.

The happy memories will remain long after the heartache subsides.

Best wishes mate
braders1978 braders1978
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Post #6 23 Jul 2022 17:44
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Sorry for your loss mate,im sure she had a great life with you and your family
tazi tazi
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Post #7 23 Jul 2022 18:15
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Thank you to you all for your caring and reassuring words of comfort.

Greatly appreciated.

Dogs really are truly amazing.
scozza
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Post #8 23 Jul 2022 19:33
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Very sad news and I know the feeling Les but it sounds like you gave your dog the best life you could and as an owner that's all you can do so be proud

tazi tazi
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Post #9 23 Jul 2022 21:03
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Thank you Mate, much appreciated.

We did all we could and she repaid that back tenfold.

Just cant believe it as every morning she would love her walk (despite the damage getting lungworm did) as we walked around wherever she took me to for at least an hour which was the same yesterday too.

Last evening she had what the vet said a stroke as she was sick, off balance, slobbering and it left her head leaning to the left. Absolutely devastating to have seen her like that. The vet said they could try her on meds and steroids but there was no guarantee she'd fully improve and the chances are that she'd be left with her head leaning. It was a hard yet right decision to make to let her pass but took a photo n video of our special little girl before administering the drug to put her to rest.

The pain (as you so sadly know) hurts for a long time and when that pain subsides a little then that's when we are taking comfort from the fact we gave them both a caring and loving home.

RIP Nikka my/our special little girl with lots of kisses n hugs from us all.

Xxxxxxxx

tazi tazi
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Post #10 23 Jul 2022 21:11
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When the wife gave me the go ahead to go and give her a loving home we went to the dogs home hurriedly in the hope that no one had decided to have her.

My daughter hurried down the aisle and took the card from off the cage door, just as a lady approached and asked us if we were having her because she was going to have her as she's beautiful and would breed from her.

I guess you could say that within the nick of time my daughter saved her life as no doubt the lady who wanted her wouldn't have had her neutered.

RIP Nikka.

Xx
scozza
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Post #11 23 Jul 2022 21:38
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Similar to you, I had ours put to sleep while he was in my arms, best pal for 8 years before his illness

Didn't want another one, my missus and the daughter got another after around 3 months, life's good again now, pup that's as mad as a box of frogs and regular walks. Still miss the old dog but when I think of him it's with a smile on my face, gone but will never, ever, be forgotten
tazi tazi
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Post #12 23 Jul 2022 23:33
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That's what we did had Nikka a few days after losing Taz and was the best thing we could have done. We had Nikka after I had taken her belongings to the city dogs home as I needs to pacify myself that there wasn't another dog like her. Anyhow, I turn right after coming out of the office and then my heart melted the moment I saw Nikka and was a day later but managed convince the wife (just in the nick of time as it turned out) that we should get her and when the pain eases I'll feel a whole lot better when looking back on the memories that we all made together.

I wish your pup a great life full of life and wellbeing. They are fantastic and credit to your wife and daughter as it does help immensely after losing such a loving and thoughtful companion.

All the best mate to you and your family and thanks for the chat and listening as it helps enormously.

Off to bed but I won't be able to sleep.

Too right, gone but will never ever be forgotten.
Frenzy Frenzy
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Post #13 25 Jul 2022 11:53
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sad post, devastating to say the least. Thoughts with you all

ive got two labs, one of 5 and one of 12, the 12 yr old, we've just discovered she has a cancerous tumour on her left rear leg. she goes in next week to have it removed, but at 10cm round and looks like half a tennis ball, im preparing for the worst if im honest
tazi tazi
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Post #14 25 Jul 2022 17:42
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Cheers mate. Sad indeed mate one of the most difficult things to hit you.

Good luck to your dog mate and pray that all goes well.

Thoughts with you too mate.

Keep us informed mate and fingers crossed.

I'd go the dogs home now but the Mrs won't have another because of the heartache , upkeep (getting no younger) or healthier for that matter but i understand.

Just seems so quiet and spacious in the house without a mans best friend around the place.
wandle1 wandle1
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Post #15 25 Jul 2022 20:56
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My thoughts are with you and your family Tazi..

There's a reason why the French call dogs ,beasts of sadness,or similar saying ...

Anyway ,we did our good deed for the dog god a coupla weeks ago,daughter and workmate took on a very old collie,approx 15 yrs old ,let down badly by its deceased family's owner..very uncertain future for sure, no doubt about it...

Long story short ,we set up a fund to sort this Collies teeth out,and rehome him,now ,teeth are done,..and Zack the Collie ,who is awesome, has a new lifetime mate,Terry ,my daughters bf,they are inseparable..

Lovely dog ,...
tazi tazi
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Post #16 25 Jul 2022 21:15
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Thank you mate, much appreciated.

That is fantastic mate and so pleasing to read that Zack has a new lifeline and I bet he's 3100dy loving it.

Fantastic and to give love n comfort to a dog in the twilight of their life really is heartwarming to hear.

All the best to Zack mate.

wandle1 wandle1
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Post #17 25 Jul 2022 21:21
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It's brilliant tazi, this dog is so friendly and trusting ,just one look into Zacks eyes ,and I'd defy anyone not to feel moved..

Terry ,driving ,Zack ,15 yrs old sat in front seat of van ,window open ,yep..they be mates..lucky dog, lucky daughters bf.
Frenzy Frenzy
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Post #18 25 Jul 2022 22:03
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she goes in a week tomorrow, im away on business for 3 days that week, so im going to be on tender hooks until the wife calls me.

the only thing i cling onto, is that we give our dogs the best life they deserve mate. Someone recently said

"your dogs dont know how lucky they are!"

i could only reply

"Nor should they know how lucky they are"

we love them as part of our lives and family
tazi tazi
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Post #19 25 Jul 2022 23:13
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Fantastic and sounds real nice dog. Can just picture them having the time of their lives.

Superb.
tazi tazi
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Post #20 25 Jul 2022 23:36
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Absolutely spot on as to me they're family too.

Amazing animals.

All the very best, fingers and everything crossed for your dog and thoughts to your other dog too as it must be difficult for him or her too.

They know just how much care and love you show and return it tenfold.

Nikka absolutely adored her mum and gave her a million kisses or more, as for me I had more off the neighbors dog. Having said that quite often she would come sit by my feet and wanted hugs which was truly fantastic.

A few seconds prior to going to Rainbow Bridge she wrapped her paw around my wife so tight that she now has a scratch on her wrist. Took a photo of it as a reminder of just how much she loved her mum.

The morning of having take her to the vets I said to her (want to go ta'tas) she got her stroke ridden body off the floor and still with her poor balance took 2 steps towards me but then her body wouldn't take her any further. At this point I became even more of a wreck.

I do question myself of if I should have given her a fighting chance to get better by trying medication but it was only a 30% chance that she would get better but they said she'd be left with her head leaning to the left. Couple that with her lungs were scarred (left her with coughing and shortness of breath) after getting lungworm 4 years ago I think I made the correct call.
Frenzy Frenzy
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Post #21 26 Jul 2022 08:41
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As much as that must have hurt you all deeply, you did do the right thing mate...as difficult as it must have been. Sometimes we have to put our personal feelings aside and do whats right for the poor dog.

The memories you will have from her will be immense and life with you all for ever

much love mate, i'll keep you posted on my Jess, bless her. I know im going to be in a right state when that sad day comes.
tazi tazi
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Post #22 26 Jul 2022 10:44
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Cheers mate and once again the very best of luck and hope all goes well.

The day the hurt comes does in time become outweighed by the fact we provided such a loving and caring home which is why I guess it is what we do.

Good luck Jess. Xx

Frenzy Frenzy
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Post #23 26 Jul 2022 10:52
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tazi tazi
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Post #24 26 Jul 2022 18:35
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CarpCodger71 CarpCodger71
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Post #25 26 Jul 2022 19:57
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My thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time
tazi tazi
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Post #26 26 Jul 2022 22:13
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Cheers mate as it means a lot.
Frenzy Frenzy
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Post #27 4 Aug 2022 07:14
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well Jess my 12 yr old black lab had her lump removed, aggressive cancer, they removed what the could and she has 4 layers from internal to external stiches in her rear left leg.

Vets said it will more than likely come back in some form, and we could keep operating on it, but im not putting her through that every 6-9 months.

we will have to see what happens now
tazi tazi
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Post #28 11 Aug 2022 22:32
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Hi mate. Sorry that I hadn't replied sooner.

Sorry to hear that it may likely come back but I'll be keeping everything crossed that it does not.

If it did mate then I'd be the same in not putting her through that every so often.

I wish her and all that love her the very best.

Xx.

Thanks for the update and fingers well n truly crossed.
Frenzy Frenzy
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Post #29 12 Aug 2022 09:08
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cheers buddy, no need to reply any sooner than you can mate.

is what it is i guess mate, we will just make sure she has the best life ever (as we have done regardless)

tazi tazi
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Post #30 12 Aug 2022 11:03
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Cheers mate and no doubt you'll all do your utmost.

All the best to Jess and to you all buddy.
Frenzy Frenzy
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Post #31 12 Aug 2022 16:02
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