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Near death experience anyone?. (49 posts / 2,029 views)
tazi tazi
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Post #1 18 May 2020 16:40
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Is there really life after death?.

Must admit i find death pretty frightening and don't know if you ever get to meet your past family at all.

Pretty daunting thread I suppose but anyone ever had a NDE and willing to post about it or thoughts on if they believe there is indeed an afterlife?.

Thanks in advance.
ken
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Post #2 18 May 2020 18:28
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I don't know much about life after death but I work in a job where I have talked with people who have died from heart failure, cardiac arrest and brought back with CPR and after a couple of them have said some really interesting stories.
If it's just a chemical reaction in the brain or something else who knows.
Watch the Robert Redford film where he proves life after death really exists, can't think of the name of it.
mal mal
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Post #3 18 May 2020 18:50
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The film - called The Discovery

https://www.imdb.com/title/tt5155780/
tazi tazi
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Post #4 18 May 2020 19:00
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Cheers both and will take a look at the film, sounds interesting.
Tinhead Tinhead
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Post #5 18 May 2020 19:32
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Is there really life after death?.


No
scozza
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Post #6 18 May 2020 19:49
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Yes

The soul lives in the body
tazi tazi
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Post #7 18 May 2020 20:17
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tazi tazi
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Post #8 18 May 2020 20:18
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noj
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Providing we don't get cremated the carcass we lug about will ensure life continues. Wether it's bacteria, insects, plants, animals or anything else that gets access to it; I don't believe we carry on in any way..
We are dust, arrogant dust that assumes superiority over all other life
fishie fishie
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Post #10 18 May 2020 21:26
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Cremation usually leads to being rose fertiliser

With and ex i went to a spiritualist once who after she had spoken to the ex offered to help me. She described a person overlooking and watching out for me. She described him as being in uniform and had pilots wings on his chest, but he was in green not blue. I dismissed this as neither I or my family had any connection with the RAF or pilots, so i thought. A year after this I was chatting to my mother and explained what had happened and she went very quiet. She then went and got a box out of a cupboard. She then explained that her mother had remarried later in life after her father had died and the stepfather had a son who had died in Arnhem during the war. She produced a picture of this man who was wearing his green army uniform and pilot wings on his chest. He was a glider pilot. I still cant explain to this day how the spiritualist knew and my ex never knew about any of my families history as my mother never liked her!
tazi tazi
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Post #11 18 May 2020 22:00
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It's very weird, no explaining it.

My wife also went to see someone and was told the following.

The number 8 would be lucky for us. So everyday I looked through the morning papers to check the horse racing cards to see if the number 8 resembled anything to me/us in the hope I could win a few quid.

Anyway, my wife later had twins in which one was seriously ill from birth and touch and go if she survived but they revived her and was in hospital for 3 weeks and despite a brain injury did survive.

Our other twin was diagnosed at the age of 11 with a brain tumour and we were told by the specialist that she would be lucky to reach her teenage years but if she did then she would not see them out. Thankfully after operating ‘though couldn't remove all of the tumour due to it being in a tricky place' and several weeks of radiotherapy thankfully at 24 years of age and despite having not the best of health and virtually blind she's still with us to this day.

Date of birth of twins 8/8.
mal mal
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Post #12 19 May 2020 01:38
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I live in Blackburn

Every day is a near death experience.....

tazi tazi
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Post #13 19 May 2020 10:03
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You should live in bentilee. Little fishing pool across fields from where I live, there's more chance of hooking a forensic diver than a fish.
mal mal
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Post #14 19 May 2020 13:43
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spencerh spencerh
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Post #15 19 May 2020 14:15
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To be fair, for a good majority of us living, it's fairly easy to explain this. Most of us would have elderly relatives that were involved in one of the two world wars, so likely have some connection to those in the armed forces. A lot of the spiritualist types employ a simple technique known as cold reading.

As for near death experiences, there is one theory, although it's certainly not well supported that the pineal gland excretes elevated amounts of DMT at death, and even for a few hours after, which is a very potent psychedelic.
Tinhead Tinhead
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Post #16 19 May 2020 16:19
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For a laugh my miisus organised a girls night were a clairvoyant came round.
He done everyone individually, some were very impressed, some were not so and my missus thought it was a load of cobblers. Her told her how her life would play out and how she wouldn't have anymore children........ WRONG!
braders1978 braders1978
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Post #17 19 May 2020 17:15
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Do you mean the one by the roundabout at the end of dividy road
braders1978 braders1978
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Post #18 19 May 2020 17:17
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They meant anymore with you
Tinhead Tinhead
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Post #19 19 May 2020 17:55
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If he did he was wrong with that as well.
mal mal
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Post #20 19 May 2020 18:08
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mate of mine lives in Milton Keynes


he had a near life experience once...

thankyou - I'm here all week
tazi tazi
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Post #21 19 May 2020 19:50
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HI mate.

No mate this one is across Berryhill fields called tiddlers which is a tough little place to fish and where a double figure is an achievement.

I know the one you mean which is just a little further up on the left from where the gas ommeter used to be which has some very big carp in there and also double figure tench too. Think that one is called Mary something.

Edit - sorry it's called lady corner just off Dividy road on the left.

The last I've read it is owned by stoke on Trent city council and is run by Stone private angling club and so is the one further up on the right named parkhall pool.
Tinhead Tinhead
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Post #22 19 May 2020 19:53
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I'll be glad when the schools go back
tazi tazi
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Post #23 19 May 2020 20:15
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scozza
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Post #24 19 May 2020 20:27
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Me too, he needs some ****ing lessons
braders1978 braders1978
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Post #25 19 May 2020 20:43
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My mate used to fish both the gasometer and parkhall.His dad had a lovely dark mirror out of the gasometer
braders1978 braders1978
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Post #26 19 May 2020 20:44
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I bet you Mal is one of the cool teachers all the kids love
mal mal
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Post #27 19 May 2020 20:47
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thanks Braders - at least someone on carpforum (along with jeffire) knows what's what

you other scumbags can sod off
tazi tazi
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Post #28 19 May 2020 21:32
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Some big carp in there. Bloke I knew fished there often and had plenty big ones out.
Tinhead Tinhead
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Post #29 19 May 2020 21:45
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Since when have hippies been cool?
mal mal
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Post #30 19 May 2020 22:04
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1969
Tinhead Tinhead
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Post #31 19 May 2020 22:08
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Stooges were never hippies
Oops wrong thead
Daveb36 Daveb36
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Post #32 23 May 2020 20:14
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We'll be on the subject of ghosts next Good grief.

Mediums and clairvoyants are all frauds that feed on human gullibility and none, repeat NONE of them have been able to prove otherwise when scientifically studied.

We live - we die - get over it and go fishing.
tazi tazi
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Post #33 30 May 2020 18:40
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Ghosts.

Here's one for you.

I was expecting a delivery once and had to go out with the wife so my daughter listened out for the delivery.

Anyhow, there she is in the outhouse with all the doors open so in case there was a knock on the door and when I came back in she told us that she had seen a young boy through the kitchen wearing a grey colour cap.

So, I ring my mate whose done a bit of ghost busting and he does some research on the area that I live and turns out there was a pit explosion ‘Ubberley I do believe' which killed many including youngsters that worked there. He printed off some photos and amazingly there were the children who had grey coloured caps on exactly as described by my daughter what she had seen.
scozza
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Post #34 30 May 2020 18:52
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I've seen a ghost

When we were kids me and my mate were going to the fishing shop for some bait. We used to cut through a multi story car park to save time. The car park looked down onto some very old engineering works. Me and my mate both looked down and across into a door opening. The was a large suspended crane block (what holds the hook etc) and an old mans face appeared on it, he was wearing a flat cap. Me and my mate looked at each other both said together, did you see that, it was unbelievable

Seriously spooky
tazi tazi
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Post #35 30 May 2020 19:08
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Weird mate, weird.

I was working nights one evening not long after the birth of our twins. I phoned the wife every night at 9pm to see how they were all doing. Anyway, i get this strange feeling that all is not right at home so I telephoned as soon as I got this feeling which was about 8pm. Wife picks up the phone and she's upset because she had seen a shadow come out from underneath the door that leads to the stairs and this shadow then stops over the cot where our twin daughters were sleeping. During this both my wife and son looked at each other and both said what they had just seen. It was a company where I worked where no bosses were rarely around so as long as my work was done I could do pretty much what I chose really or even leave the premises. I tell my mate and because he drives we went to my house and whilst we couldn't see anything unusual it transpired that old man Franklin who lived over the back of me in a row of terraced houses had passed away roughly at that time ‘I knew his son Kevin who told me' and maybe it was the spirit world coming to fetch his soul.

Weird stuff.
scozza
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Post #36 30 May 2020 20:56
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I think it's one of those mate, unless you have experienced it people will think you are talking bollox

I agree though, weird goings on, especially when two people see the exact same thing at the same time

Fascinates me, same as the universe, the soul, life after death etc. The universe does not just end does it

Same as premonitions, I've had a lot come true over the years

I once watched a program and it basically said that we only use a very small amount of our brains true capability because we don't know how to. Maybe this is part of it?

Saying that I reckon some people don't even use 1%
tazi tazi
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Post #37 30 May 2020 21:36
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Tinhead Tinhead
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Post #38 30 May 2020 21:40
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You're talking bollox. Try using more than 1% of your brain
scozza
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Post #39 31 May 2020 06:40
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Told yer
Innocenti Innocenti
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Post #40 6 Jun 2020 09:02
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Happened to me 16 years ago Ken, I have a story of what "I seen" but it's something I don't really share..
Chuffy Chuffy
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Post #41 6 Jun 2020 09:29
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Fascinating interview with Leslie Kean who has written a book on the subject after doing some proper research
Surviving Death
jimmyAd jimmyAd
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Post #42 7 Jun 2020 18:43
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All these ghosts wearing flat caps etc, surely if people's spirits could pass to the other side there clothing etc couldn't yet no one ever sees a naked ghost 😂
scozza
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Post #43 7 Jun 2020 19:03
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Says a bloke with a dog that wears a Trilby

You can only say what you see James. For two people to have the same premonition at the same time and see the exact same things that does not add up, something spooky going on
jimmyAd jimmyAd
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Post #44 7 Jun 2020 19:18
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It ain't a ghost dog, so tell me how this flat cap passed over to the other side, if you'd of said you saw a bloke stark bollocko I'd have believed you😉
mal mal
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Post #45 7 Jun 2020 19:39
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just thinking that 'Near Death Experience' would make a great name for a band....

scozza
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Post #46 7 Jun 2020 20:02
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if you'd of said you saw a bloke stark bollocko I'd have believed you

I bet you would have liked that James

Can't explain it to this day Jim and been honest it's not something I have talked about a lot, who would believe it, only somebody who has seen the same or similar I guess?
jimmyAd jimmyAd
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Post #47 9 Jun 2020 09:55
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My elderly next door neighbour went to a medium after her husband died, she came back full of joy and now reckons she sees and talks to Les, if it makes her happy then let it be it isn't doing her any harm, as for the famous mediums I watched that Derek Ancora once and he said to this bloke I'm getting the letter J coming from your direction, does it mean anything to you, the bloke said No, so Derek said not a James or a John, the bloke said No definitely, with that a woman about 5 spaces away said I've lost my Aunt Joan recently, and Ancora went yes it's her it's her it's your Aunt Joan 😂😂😂
scozza
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Post #48 9 Jun 2020 13:05
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Priceless

To be fair, stuff like this fascinates me and it makes me wonder what is really true and not so i once did a bit of research, took me a while to find something but...

There are different techniques they use but a lot run certain patterns, the explorer one is very popular...

So Mr X, you look like a bit of an explorer to me (open ended question)

I bet you participate in sports and outdoor activities (open ended question)

Well, yes i like carp fishing....(OK, now were talking)

They follow a pattern and ask open ended questions so you fill out the blanks and they encourage you to

If they knew it was Joan they would say Joan lol. Wait a minute, my grandma had a friend called Joan, wow!

I bet you have had sad times in your life (haven't we all), you will tell them about it, they will run a pattern

I bet you have had happy times in your life (pattern)

i bet your not happy now (pattern)

Well, yeah, that is right... (we always have something on our minds)

tazi tazi
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Post #49 9 Jun 2020 13:27
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Can't beat talking to Les......
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