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Greekskii Greekskii
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#1486 5 Aug 2020 07:11
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From an individual all we can do is treat people on face value and with respect, that's it for me

You could also call it out when you see/hear it. Like I said from the start, if you Alienate that racist friend or family member by highlighting every time they are racist then maybe they will start to change. Defending someone in public to show them they have support.

I don't think as a society we are powerless. We hold the most power to remove racism as together as a whole enormous amount of pressure can be applied to racists and casual racism (that sort that people don't even realise they are doing) to create change. Some never will but many will. Or at least be conscious of it within themselves.
scozza
Posts: 18,419
#1487 5 Aug 2020 09:22
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For once i agree

Its starts with families and households and then schools, after that, well, there is no help for some people
mal mal
Posts: 8,986
#1488 5 Aug 2020 10:33
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Yes - actively challenge rather than passively condone.

I'd go as far as to say it's our responsibility to speak up whenever we see / hear it. Embarrass that mate who always makes the casual racist remarks. Be the annoying git who always has to point out racist language - even if it's unintentional. Educate yourself and then others as to why terms like 'half caste' and 'coloured' are offensive. Teach our children to celebrate diversity rather than tolerate it. Don't shrug your shoulders and say 'it happens all the time' without calling it out when it happens around you.

It's how we can make small changes as individuals that will have that greater impact on the whole. If even just the three of us made one other person think differently about it today then that's positive. Ripples that spread.

Scozza - absolutely agreed. Treat people with respect - and show your disrespect of racist attitudes too. Football is doing good things. But still could be doing even more. Again, be annoying and when people say 'why are they still doing that knee thing'? Maybe respond with 'because the issue still exists'.

And... if someone points out a racist incident, try being comfortable with simply agreeing that it's wrong without having to say 'ah well it could happen to white people too' - because persecution and ignorance shouldn't be a competition.

Black Lives Matter has never meant that white lives don't. It's ok to simply say 'yes they do'. In the same way as supporting Macmillan Cancer research doesn't mean you think that the British Heart Foundation isn't important.

Went off one one again there, but all with positive thoughts.

Peace and love and have a good day

Not
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#1489 11 Aug 2020 14:03
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From Chairman Mal:
"Yes - actively challenge rather than passively condone.

I'd go as far as to say it's our responsibility to speak up whenever we see / hear it. Embarrass that mate who always makes the casual racist remarks. Be the annoying git who always has to point out racist language - even if it's unintentional. Educate yourself and then others as to why terms like 'half caste' and 'coloured' are offensive.....blah blah blah do as I say as I am reeeeallly clever and educated, but in reality, i'm a pratt....."


I just came back to have a browse and see the resident virtue-signalling 'fascist robot' is still trying to convince us that we are all racists and should take the knee... and that his opinions are correct and everyone else is wrong, he's even resorted to telling people how to speak and act, YUK. ...

You sir, are weird.

Read real book instead of fascist psychology for dummies, you'll grow up and realise things are NOT what they seem, and that'll mess you right up.

ocelot ocelot
Posts: 1,802
#1490 11 Aug 2020 14:37
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I like my reading what do you recommend too achieve the same enlightenment as you?
mal mal
Posts: 8,986
#1491 11 Aug 2020 14:43
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Mum! Why do you always have to embarrass me in front of my friends?

Not
Posts: 181
#1492 13 Aug 2020 13:08
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The Guardian.
Not
Posts: 181
#1493 13 Aug 2020 13:10
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Did you just assume my gender Chairperson Mal?

Now I understand your feverish attempts to tell people how to act, feel and speak.
Greekskii Greekskii
Posts: 3,428
#1494 13 Aug 2020 13:24
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let me guess...you're gender neutral?
Not
Posts: 181
#1495 13 Aug 2020 14:50
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You don't need me to 'let you guess', you can just guess. You know, like you don't have to take life navigation from people who don't have a clue about sh*t to tell you how to act, feel and speak.
Greekskii Greekskii
Posts: 3,428
#1496 13 Aug 2020 17:52
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What like the government.

Also why are you telling me how to act and think? Unless you actually know stuff?
Wayne Wayne
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#1497 14 Aug 2020 17:35
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Riots have finished.......a bit like this thread.......may as well lock it up.......
mal mal
Posts: 8,986
#1498 14 Aug 2020 21:24
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stopped being about just the riots a long while back

unless you know something I don't and all the other stuff discussed has stopped too?

BLM
scozza
Posts: 18,419
#1499 15 Aug 2020 08:35
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There you go again Mal and while every you do I will keep on pulling you.

ALM, they are all somebody's child at the end of the day. Let's start at the bottom. How about all the homeless who have lost everything in life, that is a very, very sad and a really desperate situation. If we are going to improve things let's start at the bottom and concentrate on our own countries problems. There's people in this category with all kinds of issues living on the streets but we will happily accept a boat load of foreign men who make it to our shores, give them free accommodation and a monthly pay check, for them to roam our streets because they are unemployable and they always will be because they have not got the skills and never will have, a lot of them turn to crime. Couple of town centres near me are full of them, games of them, coffee shops packed all day, scare the living daylights out of old folk and woman. That's what wrong for starters

Let's make it right for the disabled

Let's make it right for the old folk who have contributed to the system all their lives and have **** all

The ones who sadly can't help themselves

I can go on and on and on

Just because your number 1 priority in life is BLM don't expect it to be everybody else's, there are a LOT of other more pressing issues for me.

When you have options in front of you, you need to use them, some people do not have any sadly!!!
nine0six nine0six
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#1500 15 Aug 2020 10:31
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ALM but some matter more than others? Have you read Animal Farm?
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